DPOY is still a goal, but d-a-d also resonates for Heat’s Adebayo as he talks about A’ja Wilson

Bam Adebayo, the Miami Heat center, has traditionally been vocal about his goal of winning the NBA Defensive Player of the Year (DPOY) award. However, at 28 years old, his focus has broadened beyond individual accolades on the court.

Inspired by his girlfriend, WNBA superstar A’ja Wilson, Adebayo is now openly discussing shared life goals. Wilson, recently named Time Magazine's 2025 Athlete of the Year, spoke in her interview about dreams of eventual marriage and starting a family, referring to Adebayo as her "life partner."

This topic now brings warmth and a smile to Adebayo, who has become more open about his personal life. While DPOY remains a professional objective, starting a family and becoming a dad has emerged as a significant personal goal for him.

The couple's relationship, which began during the 2021 Paris Olympics, was initially kept very private by Adebayo. Over their four years together, as they have been seen more publicly and celebrated each other's successes, they have gradually become more open about their partnership.